“What gets rewarded, gets repeated.”
Guys we need to stop complimenting girls for the wrong things and misleading them.
When we compliment them for how good they look in yoga pants… obviously it’s because we enjoy we like looking at their butt and this teaches them to value the way their butt looks.
When we compliment them for how good they look in their revealing shirt…
obviously it’s because we enjoy we like looking at their boobs and this teaches them to value their boobs.
And so on…
This teaches them to value false beauty. False beauty is that of lust; full of greed.
We need to teach them true beauty so they can start valuing themselves more.
Now ladies. This does not mean it’s all guys fault that you value your physical features. You need to take a stand for yourself and find your true beauty. True beauty emanates from a woman knowing who she is in Christ. Christ doesn’t value our physical features. He carefully created each and everyone of you ladies unique, and that is what makes you beautiful. Be confident. Be modest. Be beautiful.